I want to protect you and your loved ones from being victims of crimes by the catholic church and all abusers. I want to give survivors of sexual and physical abuse a voice to be heard all over the world. All abuse of children and adults by religious groups and by any organization or individual must be stopped. We can add our voices to a growing, worldwide community of people who want truth and justice. Share your experiences with me and others on this blog. @GeorgeBarilla on twitter
Thursday, July 30, 2015
Tuesday, July 21, 2015
Pope Francis you have company: other faiths and groups that abuse children
There’s
a saying, “birds of a feather flock together” and in this case the birds are
different religious groups and what they all do is sexually abuse children. Although Pope Francis and the catholic church
are notorious for abusing the most children for the longest time these
perpetrators are not alone.
It’s
good that the catholic church has had so much press and revelation of what goes
on behind closed church doors. Now, the
truth about other religious organizations (and Boy Scouts and athletic organizations)
is seeing the light:
Mennonites
SNAP,
the Survivor’s Network of Those Abused by Priests has a new chapter: SNAP-Menno
an Anabaptist-Mennonite chapter formed by twelve survivors of sexual abuse and
their advocates. One of the founders, longtime victim-advocate Ruth E. Krall,
an emerita professor at Goshen (Ind.) College who dedicated decades of her life
to understanding and penetrating the deeply hidden plague of sexual abuse among
Mennonite clans. Krall wrote a book, The
Elephant in God’s Living Room, about Mennonite theologian John Howard Yoder’s
sexual abuse of women.
Barbara
Graber, a former professor at Eastern Mennonite University in Harrisonburg,
Va., is an associate editor of ourstoriesuntold.com, a website devoted to
preventing sexualized violence among Mennonites. As a survivor of sexual abuse,
Graber was drawn to the “wealth of knowledge and hope” in the SNAP
organization. “I was overwhelmed with
emotion walking into a room of several hundred survivors who had, like me, been
sexually violated by the same persons who taught us about God and were members
of our faith community,” Graber says about the 2014 SNAP annual conference.* There are other SNAP chapters for
Presbyterians, Jews, Jehovah’s Witnesses, children of missionaries, Orthodox Christians
and Boy Scouts, among others.
2015
Conference Information (July 31-Aug 2 in Alexandria, VA)
Mormons
and the Boy Scouts Link
Child
molester + Mormons = easy prey
The
Sins of Brother Curtis: A Story of Betrayal, Conviction, and the Mormon Church
by Lisa Davis is an account of one of the most prolific serial child molesters
in the U.S., Frank Curtis. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-Day Saints, Curtis was a Sunday School teacher and Boy Scout leader, so
he had double access to children. He molested boys in several Portland, Oregon
from 1976 to 1991. At a lawsuit trial against the LDS Church is was discovered
that bishop had told the victim’s mother that they “knew” Curtis was a
pedophile and hadn’t warned the family—that it was discovered that the church
had known for years that Curtis was a danger to children. (Sound familiar Pope
Francis?) Curtis was excommunicated (for homosexuality rather than pedophilia) then
re-baptized and returned to the positions from which he preyed upon children.
So
what do the Mormons have to do with Boy Scouts (other than molesting
them)? According to Davis while the Boy Scouts of
America is a separate entity from the LDS Church, but the Mormon church is the
largest single sponsor of the BSA. So almost all Mormon boys are Boy Scouts and
many have been molested in both places. So the LDS Church decided that leaders of
church Boy Scout troops had to be checked out by the BSA – that’s like asking
the fox to watch the chickens.
The
LDS must have used the catholic church for a role model: it took so many years
before their crimes saw the light of day, there were so many victims, and the church
fought a battle to keep it secret and the perpetrator “repented” and was given
another chance to have access to children. Like the catholic church, the LDS had
the deep pockets and the lawyers to wear the victim’s lawyers down. [The LDS
Church’s lawyers] were fighting a war of attrition, in which one side wins just
because the other side can’t keep up.
It
turns out that Curtis had a criminal record from way back – stealing, armed
robbery in the same area where Al Capone did his dirty work. Curtis’ criminal
record said that he had inappropriate sexual behavior with boys. There was a
clue that was missed. If, in 1929, they say that he’s having sex with young
boys, and his last victim was molested in 1991, that’s more than 60 years.
Jehovah’s
witnesses
Again,
like their counterparts in the catholic church Elders in the Jehovah’s Witness
leadership have been covering up child sex abuse. Recently, a group of ex-Jehovah’s Witness
members put up a billboard calling out leadership in the church for failing to
adequately address sexual abuse — and even for actively covering it up. The
billboard points viewers to a website (www.JWAWAKE.com) that offers evidence
for the claims. The group hopes for the message to make an impact during
upcoming conventions, which thousands will attend.
They want to hold Elders accountable for failing
to report sexual abuse. Now, Elders are instructed to only turn over to
authorities cases in which there are two witnesses — which means that in
addition to the victim, either the perpetrator must confess, or the abuse must
have been performed where another church member could witness it — something most
sexual predators know how to avoid. They’re asking every Jehovah’s Witness to
contact the governing body of the church and call for change -- to call for
Elders to be ordered to report every incident, with or without a witness. The
billboard will be present through two Jehovah’s Witness conventions on July 31,
and August 7. Having the Elders be
accountable is a good step to take but direct reporting to the police would be
better for the children.
Revelations
on Rabbis
It
not only Christian denominations sexually abusing children, the Jewish
institutions in Israel and in the U.S. do their share of abuse.
In
Israel the past week, two men heading religious institutions in Israel were
added to the list of sex predators in the religious Jewish world. Rabbi Ezra
Scheinberg was caught by police two weeks ago at Ben Gurion airport trying to
avoid arrest on charges of rape, sexual harassment and indecent assault. Ten
women have come forward – with more expected because the court lifted the ban
on releasing his name. Scheinberg, 47, married with eight children raped women
who came to him for spiritual counseling, and told the women it was part of
their healing treatment. (We’ve heard that story before).
One
of his victims said, “After all these years of your intimidations, we are no
longer scared. Your scare-tactics no longer work on us….If you had one drop of
integrity of justice, of truth you would ask for our forgiveness. But your
heart was always made of stone.”
Scheinberg’s students, originally
shocked, threw his books in a big trash can, and staff are calling him “an
abomination.
Just
like Pope Francis and his bishops, the Chief Rabbi Eliyahu, was the cover for abusive
rabbis. Dr. Hannah Kehat, one of the founders of a group established by
Orthodox activists to investigate complaints of sexual abuse within the
religious sector, said Eliyahu “waged terror against any woman who dared to
complain.” The victims were called liars
in public and learned that rabbis support the offender and not them.
Like
their catholic counterparts, many rabbis advise and encourage victims and
survivors of child sexual abuse and their families to not report these crimes
to the police. They believe that incidents of child sexual abuse should be
addressed internally, led by the rabbi. To keep victims from going to the
police, they defend the perpetrators saying “he has a wife and children so why
make his entire family suffer?”, “the abuse happened many years ago,” “it was a
moment of weakness,” “he’s a righteous, God-fearing person,” “you’ll be
bringing shame on you, your family and our community,” “you’ll ruin your
marriage prospects,” and so on.
Because of the closed Orthodox society there is
greater opportunity for abuse and cover-ups – for example, having large
families, use of male mikveh (ritual bath-house), limited or no sexual
education, desire to protect the reputations of leaders/rabbis and
institutions, isolated communities that often reject the use of mainstream law
enforcement, the existence of extreme taboo/stigma etc. Some experts believe that around 50% of
Hassidic boys in Brooklyn are sexually abused. Much of the community is in
denial but like the catholic church, exposure will wake up the faithful.
Monday, July 6, 2015
Thirty years of the abuse crisis in the Catholic Church. Barbara Blaine, founder of SNAP talks to the National Catholic Reporter
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Barbara
Blaine, holding a photo of herself as a child, protests at the Vatican in April
2005. (ZUMA Press/La Presse/Mauro Scrobogna)
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This
week the National Catholic Reporter is running a series about 30 years of child
sexual abuse by the Catholic Church. It
is a series worth reading. The first article is the sad but empowering story of
Barbara Blaine, founder of the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests
(SNAP). Barbara says, “A single issue of
NCR changed the course of my life and eventually led to my starting an
international movement of survivors of clergy abuse. I am extremely grateful to
NCR!” Please read the whole series – the
more people who read this story, the safer children will be all over the world.
Thursday, July 2, 2015
Catching Cardinals in the clergy sex abuse scandal: next stop Pope Francis
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Cardinal George Pell |
The
Royal Commission in Australia has been investigating how institutions like
schools, churches and sporting groups handle child sexual abuse cases. In the spotlight currently is Cardinal George
Pell. Pell has been under fire since allegations that he turned a blind eye to
abuse resurfaced last week at the royal commission into child sexual abuse in
Ballarat, Victoria. Pell has been
accused of bribing abused victims to keep them quiet and ignoring victim’s
complaints.
Peter
Saunders, a victim of sexual abuse himself, has broken his silence about Cardinal
Pell. Saunders established the National Association for People Abused in
Childhood in Britain 16 years ago. Last December, he was hand-picked by Pope
Francis to lead the Vatican’s commission for the protection of children.
Appearing
on Nine Network's 60 Minutes program*, Saunders described Pell as a dangerous
individual. Saunders said about Pell in the interview: “He has a catalogue of
denigrating people, of acting with callousness, cold-heartedness, almost
sociopathic, I would go as far as to say – this lack of care.” “Pell had shown disregard for victims of child
sexual abuse through his repeated denial of any knowledge of abuse within the
church”, Saunders said.
Judy
Courtin, from Australia’s Monash University’s law faculty, has extensively
researched abuse within the Catholic church. In response to the interview. Pell said he was considering his legal
options, a move which Courtin described as “highly insulting to victims”.
Courtin
said that for justice to be done, victims needed to be able to tell their story
and also to know that senior figures in the institution where the abuse
occurred were held to account. “He seems
more concerned with protecting his reputation than supporting victims,” she
said about Pell.
The
president of the Care Leavers Australia Network, Maureen Cuskelly, whose organization
supports survivors of sexual abuse within institutions, also said it was
concerning that Pell was considering his legal options.
Our
efforts are succeeding. We are exposing
the abusers of children and all those who ignore or cover up the crimes of
these abusers. Pope Francis is feeling the heat as the fires of justice get
closer and closer.
Monday, June 15, 2015
Another Catholic Church Committee Self-Serving and Ineffective
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Barbara
Blaine, founder and president of Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests,
a national advocacy group for survivors of clerical sexual abuse.
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Barbara
Blaine, president of the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests (SNAP)
wrote yesterday in the Chicago Sun Times:
“It’s
been 30 years since the first pedophile priest case attracted nationwide
attention. Since then, we’ve seen literally hundreds of Catholic abuse panels
of one stripe or another. So it’s hard for us in SNAP to feel excited about the
promise of another one, especially one in which clerics will judge fellow
clerics.”
In
Barbara’s opinion:
“Each
church committee feels like another move to handle criminal matters quietly and
internally. There’s a far better alternative: the time-tested set of
independent “tribunals” already in place to deal with those who commit or
conceal child sex crimes called the secular justice system. It is where abuse
and cover ups in other institutions are handled. But in most cases, church
officials fight such legal action vigorously. They always have and still do.
If
Vatican officials want to really protect kids and deter cover-ups, they have
all the power and policies they need. They can start by insisting that bishops
world-wide lobby politicians for stronger child safety laws, and turn over all
files about accused predators to police now.
Within
weeks of taking office, Pope Francis quickly ousted a German bishop who spent
$42 million renovating his house. He could – and should — take similarly
decisive action against hundreds of his complicit staff. No new “mechanism” was
or is needed.
That’s
the advantage of a clear, rigid monarchy –those on top can easily sack
underlings. But Catholic officials won’t defrock, demote, discipline or
denounce even one church employee, from custodian to cardinal, for protecting
predators. Not one ordained cleric on earth even criticized by name Missouri
Bishop Robert Finn, who was criminally convicted of endangering kids.
What
the church hierarchy lacks are not policies, procedures, protocols and panels.
It lacks the courage to “render unto Caesar” known and suspected criminal
church officials who selfishly put their clerical careers and comfort ahead of
the safety of their flock.
No
words on paper – however reassuring or encouraging – will give these clerics
the courage they’re missing. Let’s be prudent, stay vigilant and withhold
judgment until we see if and how this panel might act.”
Thank
you Barbara for clearly showing that Catholic officials don’t protect children
from predatory clergy – they protect themselves at all costs.
As Time Goes By –Vatican and Pope Never Change
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Archbishop John C. Nienstedt of St. Paul and Minneapolis resigned June 14 |
Steve
Sheehan, publisher of the National Survivor Advocates Coalition News had this
to say today about Pope Francis’ latest attempt to show that he is chasing down
bad bishops:
“Hark
the Papal Tribunal sings! It seems to me
I heard that song before. Well, play it again, Sam!”
Do you remember:
“1985:
The Doyle, Mouton, Peterson report? Well,
let's just put that aside and perhaps it will simply fade away.
2002: The Boston Globe Spotlight report? Well, we'll have a conference, write a
charter, create a Review Board and then it'll just be history. Let's move Bernard Law to Rome where he'll be
out of the hot seat.
2004: We were told that the clergy sexual abuse
crisis is now "history."
2004
to 2012: Rather than seeking to heal the Church, the US Catholic bishops went
on the offensive seeking to reassert their lost moral authority by politicizing
the Eucharist and focusing on divisive social issues such as religious liberty
and marriage equality at the expense of speaking out collectively for the poor,
further surrendering their moral voice.
2012: Finn? Well, we'll just sit this one out and
people will forget about him. In a few years he'll retire and we'll be out of
the woods.
2013:
Maybe we should form a Pontifical Commission.
That'll look like we're doing something positive.
2015:
The commission recommends a tribunal be established to look into holding
bishops accountable. It'll take several years for that to get into action and
in the meantime we'll talk about the environment and the economy and divert
people's attention. Another encyclical will occupy their minds.
It's
still the same old story - and the melody lingers on.”
What
Steve says is true – these commissions are just window dressing – attempts by
the Catholic Church hierarchy to look good and do nothing. What Pope Francis doesn’t realize is that we
see through his smoke screen and we are the people that he can no longer
fool.
Tuesday, May 12, 2015
Resigning from the Catholic Church: Pope Francis was hired to stop the exodus
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Fewer and Fewer |
The
catholic church is on the way out. Attendance
and number of churches has been declining for many years – faster since the pedophile
priest cover-up was headline news in the Boston Globe in 2002.
In
the U.S., of all the major denominations catholics have seen the largest
decline in members. Since the 1960s,
four American-born Catholics have left the church for each person who has
converted, according to a 2009 Pew study. From 2007 to 2014, 3 million people
left the catholic church. More than
1,000 parishes have closed since 1995, and the number of priests has fallen
from about 49,000 to 40,000 during that same period. Some 3,400 Catholic
parishes in the U.S. now lack a resident priest. “Catholicism is in decline
across America,” says sociologist David Carlin. Numbers of catholics are also
shrinking around the world in Europe and Australia.
There are some interesting statistics about
the slippery slope the church finds itself sliding down.
If
ex-Catholics were counted as their own religious group, they would be the
third-largest denomination in the United States, after Catholics and Baptists,
according to the National Catholic Reporter.
If
it weren’t for the many Catholic immigrants, especially from Latin American,
the American Catholic Church would be shrinking even faster (CNN 2012).
However, according to a Pew Research Center report, many catholic Latin
Americans have left the church to become protestant. This is why the Vatican chose
Pope Francis (from Argentina) – to keep Latin Americans in the catholic church.
In
a study in the Trenton, NJ diocese some of the top reasons for leaving were:
Ø The sex abuse crisis
-- the church’s inadequate response to clergy sex abuse, refusal of bishops to
list pedophile priests on the diocese’s website and non-support of the effort
to lift the statute of limitations for survivors seeking justice in the courts.
Some of those responding said they had been victims of sexual abuse by church
leadership.
Ø Dissatisfaction with
the priest – words used were: “arrogant,” “distant,” “aloof” and
“insensitive”
Ø Uninspiring sermons
on Sundays -- messages from the priest, did not relate or “speak to” them. And
whenever the church wanted to raise money, they dropped the sermon and talked
about donations.
Ø The church hierarchy was
too closely tied to conservative politics. People felt that the church should
stay out of politics; it should certainly not threaten politicians.
Ø The status of women
-- the church is too involved in American politics relating to family planning,
women’s rights, not allowing women to become ordained.
Some
other statistics:
Ø A 2014 survey in the
Diocese of Springfield, Illinois, found 4 major reasons for leaving: Not happy
with Church doctrine, losing interest in the faith and Mass, church sex
scandals or feeling unwelcome or judged by the Church.
Ø Only 30 percent of
Americans who were raised Catholic are still practicing.
Ø 10 percent of all adults
in America are ex-Catholics.
Ø 79 percent of those
born or raised catholic and who are no longer catholic or have any religious affiliation
of any kind, made their decision by age 23 – this means that there will be no
one to fill the pews in the coming decades
Each
of us has personal reasons for leaving the church. On this blog I have talked often about the
reasons that I left. If you (the reader)
are leaving the church or have left it, let me know why. It may be for some of
the reasons above, or you may have other reasons to share with me and other
readers.
Friday, May 8, 2015
Catholic Nuns and Priests murdered and tortured children: are you listening Pope Francis? Part V. Bishop Hubbard’s Damage Control. A in a five part weekly series on catholic church crimes
Paying for his sins using our money
Bishop
Hubbard, who led the 400,000-member Albany diocese from 1977 and retired in
2014, denied that he ever broke his vow of celibacy. So to have an
“independent” opinion, the Albany Roman Catholic Diocese's Sexual Misconduct
Review Board hired Mary Jo White. Ms. White, a law partner in the 500-member
firm of Debevoise & Plimpton in Manhattan, was paid $770 an hour and that
did not include her staff billing. How could she be independent if the people
she investigated paid her salary?
After
four months (at $770/hr.) White released a 200 page report. White’s
investigation was only of Hubbard – it did not look at the many accounts of
other Albany diocese priests who were sexually abusive or were homosexuals. No
surprise: she concluded that there was no credible evidence the bishop was
guilty of homosexual activity, or broke his vows of celibacy, or had sexual
relations with anyone. The diocese got a $2.2 million bill for services
rendered – and the Catholic faithful of the 14-county Albany diocese paid for
it. But there is too much evidence that White’s report was a white wash and a
cover-up. There are too many people who know the truth.
In
addition to the Minkler case, White’s investigation was focused on claims by
Andrew Zalay, who released his brother Thomas' 1978 suicide notes, one of which
refers to a relationship with "Howard" and calls him the bishop.
Thomas Zalay died after setting himself ablaze in his parents' home. White also
discredited this account. But what about
people who actually knew Minkler? – like Bob Linde:
“The
case speaks for itself. Hubbard took three million out of Catholic funds, and
hired Former U.S. Attorney White (A Close Friend) to show that he was not a
pervert. We know he is, and together with Father Nolan (who worked for Hubbard)
is responsible for the death of Father John Minkler for trying to expose
Hubbard and his cronies.
I
knew Father John Minkler and talked with him on regular basis. I also know his
sister Patty and am in touch with her from time to time. He was the Chaplin at
the VA Hospital in Albany, sent there to be away from Hubbard. John Minkler helped me get my partial pension
from the Military – he helped me in many ways and we talked often. He was a
good man, and loved life too much to commit suicide and I don’t believe that he
did. I talked to him a couple days before and he was going to call me again. He
did want to expose Hubbard as homosexual. He was under a lot of pressure from
exposing the sexual activities involving Hubbard and his priest. A few days
later he was dead from an overdose.
Michelle Bolton was an editor at Albany Times Union, and lost her job
over this story. She told me that she would, but ran it anyway.”
Also
said Bob, “Minkler and others knew that there was a gay bar in Utica NY where
Hubbard and other clergy met quite often. Lesbian nuns also participated. Did
you know that Hubbard is on the sex offenders list on the bishopaccountability.com
website?”
From
the bishopaccountability.com website:
“On
2/15/2004, Minkler was found dead at his home in Watervliet NY, three days
after being identified as the author of a 1995 letter to Cardinal John O’Connor
alleging doctrinal violations and sexual misconduct by Albany bishop Howard
Hubbard, and one day after diocesan officials announced that Minkler had met
with them and stated that he was not the author of the letter. The day after
Minkler’s death, Stephen Brady of the organization Roman Catholic Faithful
released to reporters a set of handwritten notes by Minkler dated 1/9/2001. He
said Minkler had given him the notes three years earlier, along with a copy of
the 1995 letter, which, Brady said, Minkler had written. Minkler's 2001 notes
named more than a dozen Albany priests allegedly guilty of sexual misconduct,
including Rev. Gary Mercure, who at that time was an active pastor but who was
convicted in 2011 of raping two boys in the 1980s. In June 2004, former US
attorney Mary Jo White released a report that Hubbard commissioned in February.
White’s report found Hubbard innocent of the allegations in Minkler’s 1995
letter and 2001 notes but did not mention the allegations against Mercure and
others.”
Justice
is not served here
Why
is it so difficult to get justice for children murdered and abused by priests
and nuns in New York State? Could it be
that high political figures in the state are very friendly with the catholic
church? Governor Andrew Cuomo was
criticized in 2011 by a consultant to the Vatican’s highest court, who said
that the governor should be denied communion because he lives with his
girlfriend with no sacrament of marriage.
Hubbard,
leader of the Albany diocese and a member of the executive committee of the New
York State Catholic Conference, made his comments at a news conference after
meeting with Cuomo at the Executive Mansion to discuss the state budget,
same-sex marriage and other issues. Question: Why does Hubbard get to discuss
these issues with a politician when there is supposed to be separation of
church and state? Hubbard said, “And when it comes to judging worthiness for
communion, we do not comment on either public figures or private figures.
That’s something between the communicant and his pastor personally. It’s not
something we comment on.” Although
bishops in other states want to deny communion to elected officials who
disagree with church teachings Hubbard said that NY bishops are not like them.
Hubbard
appeared with Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan, leader of the Roman Catholic
Archdiocese of New York (known for his cover-ups of pedophile priests), and
several other high-ranking bishops who had lunch with Mr. Cuomo at the
Executive Mansion. A spokesman for Mr. Cuomo said: “The governor enjoyed his
lunch meeting with Archbishop Dolan and the bishops from the Catholic
Conference. He looks forward to continuing to work closely with them during his
administration.” (my emphasis) So the bishops socialize with Cuomo and other
politicians in the Executive Mansion. The State of New York belongs to the
catholic church. As long as there is no
separation of church and state where is the equal opportunity for Jews and
Muslims and other Christian denominations to add their beliefs? Or is it a
closed club?
Our
job, in addition to stopping the rapists and murderers and those who cover up
for them in the catholic church is to get rid of these politicians who support
them. We can vote them out of office. We can stop giving our money to the catholic
church who views us as cash cows to pay their lawyers to keep them out of
jail. Let’s do this now – while people
like Bob, Bill, Papay, me and others around the world who know and remember
their crimes and are fighting to stop these heartless, cold-blooded criminals
who murder children and hide behind God.
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